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Having people in on your "Process"

November 11, 2020

My new writers chair which made the couch redundant.
I want to be a better writer. I want to be open to new ideas, new concepts, things that will help me. So I am reading books recommended to me by my mentor.
On writing by Stephen King
I have read this book so many times, I am like Buffalo Bill (from Silence of the Lambs not the old west guy) wearing Stephen Kings skin and hoping like hell that just a smidge of his "amazingness" will soak into me.
Yes I would kill to have his talent and no, I am not joking. I'd also love to have his balls (not literally) his hutzpah. His ability to tell the world to "go get f*cked, I am who I am, I write what I write and if you don't like it, suck my fat one". (Wow, far too many genitalia references in that paragraph) Obviously we do like it, in fact we love it.
The most frightening experience of my life was being 12 years old and reading Carrie. I had to hide the book from myself. I accidentally came across it three years later and scared the crap out of myself again. I love the fact that if his wife Tabby hadn't fished Carrie out of the rubbish bin, wiped off the cigarette and and potato peelings and read it, he wouldn't be who he is now.
Its the same for me, if it wasn't for my Scotty too Hotty *shudder* geez I don't even want to think about it.
Save the Cat by blake Snyder

As I mull over his book feeling very genius/wanker about it I remember George R R Martin say...
“I think there are two types of writers, the architects and the gardeners. The architects plan everything ahead of time, like an architect building a house. They know how many rooms are going to be in the house, what kind of roof they're going to have, where the wires are going to run, what kind of plumbing there's going to be. They have the whole thing designed and blueprinted out before they even nail the first board up. The gardeners dig a hole, drop in a seed and water it. They kind of know what seed it is, they know if planted a fantasy seed or mystery seed or whatever. But as the plant comes up and they water it, they don't know how many branches it's going to have, they find out as it grows. And I'm much more a gardener than an architect...'
Totes George, me to bro. I can't write to a plan. At the risk of seeming really pretentious I am going to tell the honest to god, guides honour, truth. I don't know how my characters come to life, also, when they interact they tell me who they are and what they are going to do and I just write it down. Also, every single time I have tried to plan ANYTHING I have fallen on my face, good and proper, splat, ouch.
HOWEVER the beat sheet is a brilliant guide to keeping your story on track. Structure is everything, I know that *grumble grumble* I must embrace change and growth *grumble grumble* I never felt as old and set in my ways as I did when I finished reading the book. Now I really have to read it again. For my sake and I have to pry my mind open because as the great Leonard Cohen says, 'A crack is where the light comes in.'

I am about to embark on 'Bird by Bird' by Anne Lamotte
I have started this book and it has passed my test ...the first five pages are amazing, and as I settle down on my new studio bed with a coffee and cream I will tear through this gentle beast...or maybe no so gentle, and get back to ya.
Signing off...After being told to write a 'Tagline' 'Blurb' and 'Synopsis' I have come to the conclusion that writers should NOT have to do these for their own work. So, I did a survey on that facebooks and these are some of the reasons people pic books to read and it is full of the 'usual suspects'

Author, eye catching cover?
I'm terrible for finding an author i like and then binging on their entire portfolio. Courtney, Balladucci, Nesbo...❤️

I do that
I open the book in the middle and start reading or I read the back cover blurb
Either author or read first page...
Same with me...
on the shelf? Cover first, read the blurb...
recommended, nz author, appealing cover

You don't it picks you?
Off the shelf? Recommended and then I read reviews online

An enticing title
Subject matter, sometimes just picking a book randomly and start reading till finished
Author 1st page blurb..

By recommendation, gut feeling. And finally reading the introduction
Sticking to authors that I know then read all of their books, recommended by a friend (or a cousinwill flick through pages and be addicted enough to have to read or not, cover
Word of mouth
Back cover description with A bit of prologue or bit of first chapter

I’m the same re finding an author and reading all their books (#bdbforlyfe). I also find a lot of books through the goodreads website. Their book lists and award nominees ?

I go to the little Cannons Creek library. The librarian there picks the best books from the main library. That makes it easier to choose!

I open it and read a little first - certain authors I will just buy without doing this as I like their writing style so know that I'll probably enjoy it

A librarian once told me to read page 39

Ka kite ano A xxx
 

Te Papa Tupu and what it means to me

October 28, 2020
Libra/Tiger, mother/stepmother, grandmother, owner of cat and wife of Scotty.

I am trying to figure out how to condense 58 years of life into a blog. 
So, let’s start from Te Papa Tupu and why I applied?
I’d followed ‘Te Papa Tupu’ covetously for years.  I wanted to apply but did not feel good enough.  But, then again, I never feel good enough about anything.  Well, that’s not strictly true.  I vacillate between “I am amazing” and “every single thing I do is crap” or, as Nick H...

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Katie...beautiful Katie

January 21, 2019

 
My sister in law Kate Dalton and her husband Mike, with their son Timothy 1995




1995, Me with Tamati and Kate with Timothy, dancing 
at a family do at the Pines...those babies are now strapping 23 year olds.



If I am going to write about the small things in my life then I am going to write about the huge overwhelming events.  

A few weeks ago I put up a blog - it had been months since I wrote one not since September, Usually the first person to 'like' my blogs on the facebooks was my sister in law...

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2019, here I come, ready or not

January 9, 2019


It is New Years eve…

I am in the midst of spring cleaning.  My mother had a theory, that if your house was spotless on New Year’s Eve then it will be spotless for the rest of the year and I have always followed this advice. So I am decluttering, tidying and throwing a lot of crap out.

And “Oh My God” I have a lot of crap.

 I have clothes I never wear…(according to the KonMari method, this is the place you start purging especially the “One day I will fit into that” items from...


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Ch-ch-ch-changes

September 21, 2018

Me...no smile

I have actually been writing blogs over the past couple of months  but I haven't been telling anyone. I just wanted to get my thoughts down in words so my bwain didn't get all clogged up. 

Anyhoo...this week was pretty dramatic
.  Scotty hurt his hand Monday night; he got kicked in the fingers by an over enthusiastic guy at Karate.  My husband said it was his own fault as he had blocked the kick wrong.  He walked into the house and said, 'babe, you are going to be really pissed of...
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The wussy Gardener

September 3, 2018
Yay spring has sprung!!!!!!!! *dancing around the room*
No, not really dancing. 
I'm not out of the winter doldrums fully yet and the 'depression' who I have nicknamed 'Karen', as I HATE the name 'Karen' with a vengeance.  Sorry to all the Karen's I haven't met that may not be betraying conniving slag.
Anyhoo, 'Karen' has hung around a bit longer than expected and even though it gave me a few days off a couple weeks ago so I could go out to a Marae function where I caught the flu.    So even w...
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In a perfect world...

July 13, 2018

My beautiful son Nathan (Naffa) Henare Astwood
who turned 36 on 10 July 2018

I am a 'go out in to the world and have fun children' sort of mother while silently dying inside.  Not because I don't want them to go off and take the Universe by storm, but because I worry. 
Worry, worry, worry, worry. 
 Because I had parents who worried.  My mother almost drove my brother Johnny crazy when he was gaining his pilots licence, every time he went into the air she would be freaking out on the phone, telli...

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I see a horizon

July 1, 2018

My best mate, my love, my fulla :)

OMG. it has been two months since I've had the ability to touch this blog.   
I have been stuck in a black dog of depression and couldn't find the way out. 
I felt as if I was swathed in bubble wrap and I couldn't feel, hear, see, smell or taste anything but cold and grey.  I didn't have the energy to fall out of bed.  I didn't have the ability to concentrate. I couldn't create anything worthwhile.  I fully had to drag my arse through each day, moment by momen...

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Alone in the dark...

May 9, 2018
Now it is time to return to the joyful task of writing.  I use the term "joyful task" of writing in its widest form as there was a lot of joy, interlaced with a fair portion of angst, loads of self doubt,hysteria, laughs (alone in a dark room) and rewrites, many, many, many rewrites.   
Then of course there are loads more self doubt which can morph into self hatred and then veers right off in the other direction where I imagine myself  the greatest writer who every lived (that lasts a couple o...

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When everyone around you is AMAZING!!!!!!!!

May 6, 2018


My book launch was wickedly fantastic.  Thank you to everyone who came.
My contribution was my famous (in my own mind) onion tart, ham quiche and turkish chicken kebabs (which didn't make it to my side of the room where I was signing books), a feeble speech (as I lost my notes about ten minutes before I had to get up to the lectern) said with "rabbit in the headlights" animation (Luckily my dad laughed at my jokes.) and a reading which was squinty at best as I forgot my glasses.  Also carpel t...

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Olivia Giles Kia ora everyone, I am Olivia, I am a writer, and an artist, welcome to my hectic mad world.

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